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Marriage Works…..If You Work At It.

One of the most common misconceptions I have seen/heard about marriage is this “If I marry the right person, the emotions will happen naturally and effortlessly throughout our marriage.” Have you heard that before? Another variation of it is “If my emotions change toward my spouse, I must have married the wrong person.” Nothing can […]

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Marriage is about becoming one, not being the one

A few years back, I heard a quote from one of our marriage mentors that left me thinking and evaluating myself and my behaviours towards my wife. He said “Marriage is brutal on selfish people and insisting that you get to do your own thing—rather than sharing interests with your spouse—is selfish behaviour. Marriage is […]

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